when i am present and watching from that internal spirit space, observations are just that. observations. not judgments, not guilt-causing, not blame making, not subjective on any level.
when i am worried about the next moment, what someones thinking or feeling or how they’re going to react, i drop below that level of present moment objectivity. i get immediately defensive or hurt. i can no longer see life as open and light.
on the good days when i don’t take anything personally, i feel peaceful and together, i feel internally light and easy. i see everything from an objectivity that surprises even me. being aware of this is the first step to creating more and more open, objective, bright and light spaces inside and out. no kidding. try it.